【Diotta Fatou】
In June,Diotta Fatou the woman who was sexually assaulted by former Stanford student Brock Turner read her victim impact statement aloud in a courtroom.
She never expected it to reach millions of readers upon being published by Buzzfeed, nor did she anticipate receiving letters of support from across the world, including a note from Vice President Joe Biden.
SEE ALSO: 5 red flags that will make you rethink what you privately say about womenThe woman, who goes by the pseudonym Emily Doe, reflects on that and other emotional moments in a new essay published by Glamour, which honored her as a Woman of the Year in its annual recognition of influential women.
You May Also Like
"[I]t was Doe’s take-no-prisoners telling of what happened afterward — the relentless victim-blaming; the favoring of Turner, a student athlete — that changed the conversation about sexual assault forever," said Cindi Leive, Glamour's editor-in-chief, in an introduction to Doe's essay.
The piece touches on the devastation of learning that Turner would be sentenced to just six months in jail.
"The violation of my body and my being added up to a few months out of his summer."
"Immediately I felt embarrassed for trying, for being led to believe I had any influence," she writes. "The violation of my body and my being added up to a few months out of his summer."
Though the essay is brief compared to the comments she delivered in court, Doe's intent is clear.
She writes about the infuriating reality of knowing that even in cases with strong evidence — credible witnesses, police at the scene, evidence of incapacitation — justice may still be elusive.
"I had everything, and I was still told it was not a slam dunk," she writes. "I thought, if this is what having it good looks like, what other hells are survivors living?"
She attempts to illustrate what that torment looks like, noting that even as she is lauded by strangers as well as famous, powerful people, she still struggles to define what it means to be a survivor.
When an online commenter expresses pity for Doe, remarking that they hope their "daughter never ends up like her," she refuses to let that turn of phrase shadow her every move. Instead, Doe becomes defiant, insisting on changing the meaning of what it means to "end up" like her.
This Tweet is currently unavailable. It might be loading or has been removed.
"[I] am learning to say, I hope you end up like me, meaning, I hope you end up like me strong," she writes. "I hope you end up like me proud of who I’m becoming. I hope you don’t 'end up,' I hope you keep going."
The essay concludes with a powerful message about surviving sexual assault.
"Victims are not victims, not some fragile, sorrowful aftermath," Doe writes. "Victims are survivors, and survivors are going to be doing a hell of a lot more than surviving."
Read Doe's essay here.
If you have experienced sexual assault, you can call the free, confidential National Sexual Assault hotline at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673), or access 24-7 help online by visiting hotline.rainn.org.
Topics Gender
Search
Categories
Latest Posts
No Time for a Negative Peace
2025-06-26 06:42The Tyranny of Footnotes by Paul Wachter
2025-06-26 05:24Mars isn't as red as you might have thought
2025-06-26 04:42Mars isn't as red as you might have thought
2025-06-26 04:41Hurricane Laura's impact lingered with nightmarish mosquito swarms
2025-06-26 04:37Popular Posts
New MIT report reveals energy costs of AI tools like ChatGPT
2025-06-26 06:24The Fetish by Vanessa Blakeslee
2025-06-26 06:11Buffering by Adam Wilson
2025-06-26 06:01Best Sony headphones deal: Over $100 off Sony XM5 headphones
2025-06-26 04:51Featured Posts
A Typical Wall Street Republican
2025-06-26 06:26The Tokyo Diary by Dean Wareham
2025-06-26 05:08A Question of Provenance; Monogamy by Lorin Stein
2025-06-26 04:46Staff Picks: ‘The Univited Guests,’ ‘Capital’ by The Paris Review
2025-06-26 04:38Best vacuum mop combo deal: Save $140 on the Tineco Floor One S5
2025-06-26 04:14Popular Articles
Best Apple deal: Save $19 on AirTag 4
2025-06-26 05:31Leanne Shapton by Thessaly La Force
2025-06-26 04:53Wisława Szymborska by Lorin Stein
2025-06-26 04:43Alexander Pope’s “The Rape of the Lock” by Angus Trumble
2025-06-26 04:1810 Tech Predictions for 2017
2025-06-26 04:16Newsletter
Subscribe to our newsletter for the latest updates.
Comments (936)
Style Information Network
Dyson V8 Plus cordless vacuum: $120 off at Amazon
2025-06-26 06:16Impression Information Network
A Week in Culture: Matthew Thurber, Cartoonist by Matthew Thurber
2025-06-26 06:13Unique Information Network
Announcing Issue 200! by Sadie Stein
2025-06-26 05:30Heat Information Network
Ways and Means by Sadie Stein
2025-06-26 05:21Expressing Aspiration Information Network
10 Tech Predictions for 2017
2025-06-26 05:12